What makes a relationship to enjoy are common interests; What makes it interesting are the small differences. We cannot, and we must be caught by the rancor, nor much less be incruste us anger, hatred, revenge, all otherwise must let forgiveness rises up in those moments that we feel disharmonic by some facts that third parties have not originated. Sofia Roepke gives us about forgiveness that we have in mind, that Vvviendo in shape healthy and positive every moment of our life it is possible to look at the future with optimism and good feelings that originate pave the way toward the ultimate healing.Only forgiveness is the balm that can heal the pain that it causes resentment, is not a matter of waiting time outsource to delete it. Many people say: “I forgive but I won’t forget, feeling guilty for not forgetting. Stop-remember we would have to suffer from amnesia. In addition, grievances suffered experience teach us to prevent recurrence of harm us and serve us in lesson to not injure others.Forgiveness frees us from the nightmare of another and returns us the most precious gift: peace of mind. Consider: All enemy and all resentment that dwell inside of me, my present limited and obstructs my future. My reconciliation with my past work assumes a role of the utmost importance for my personal growth and my effectiveness in daily life. It doesn’t matter if the other is worthy or not be forgiven, is one who deserves to overcome resentment.But, if forgiving has offended which is so beneficial, are why we we resist both forgive? We must remember that it is a process that often exceeds our ability or willingness. We can facilitate it from several manera:1.-talk to someone who knows how to listen, telling him the conflict than us aflige.2.-write a letter to the offender that we will not ship with greater openness from which we will be able, without limitations, although our expressions are insulting.
Great breaches exist to win that every moment that passes they are making greater as far as the form in which the social classes are organized and divided, a normal person of low class or average – conceives impossible to arrive at the power and to make changes unless she is by means of which they facilitate it and these others that they have to be able economic, political and social within the regime, it is than clear more that to get to be part of the elites and consequently of the political class one is due to count on much cleverness and charisma to gain to the people and to construct good social relations that they helped us to climb more and more high in the social and political pyramid, is necessary to be astute to know which are the relations that agrees to us and to be able, not to exceed the obstacles, but to avoid them. The corruption, the unique law respected in our country, takes clearly an important paper and is one of the most common ways chosen by many, since it is a way very easy to avoid the ties and from the beginning to reach of comfortable way but the raised objectives, this causes that the citizens we stop believing in the policy and everything what includes consequently and exists but apathy, people in the ballot boxes, to choose its leaders arrives thinking who will make less damages to their interests, or he does not even go to him through the mind at least to rise of his bed to vote or to annul his vote because its fatalistic thought makes think that always it will be bread with the same. The government is the one in charge to contribute to education, security and good quality of life to the citizens which in our Mexico pretty and wanted is than clear more is not possible, since the interests of this do not include that, since if it educates the society will be arming to them to be able to question the actions of this and this form to clear them of the power, by the same is that unhealthy places and precarious conditions live in, living to the day eating what they often can and not doing it, the government instead of to generate uses and to give good education so that this does not exist prefers to wash the hands and to leave them of side doing because they do not exist and this instead of to eradicate the problem it brings of the hand a species of chain of situations since people in extreme poverty are hungry and there is no another form to obtain money and foods more than committing crimes, being united to the narcotics traffickers who promise to better conditions of life, harvesting marijuana and poppy to them since this is more income-producing than to harvest maize or wheat they prefer and it in addition not to inherit the poverty to his children, this has created that nowadays exists extreme insecurity which creates a total crisis of the political system since a State without security cannot be considered like so, the citizens even feel uncertain to show itself by the door of its house, do not know that the day provides to them, if they will return to his homes or if when arrives they found that they did not leave anything them because they have robbed to them. .