Often the woman does not approve what the man thinks, because he does not value his point of view treats nor it warmly. When the man and the woman value themselves is difficult that their differences enter the plane of the discussion. When we have something bothers to us within the relation with our pair, we must be asked: Which is the problem that I have in my mind, or in my heart that I have still not been able to solve? We are different and imperfect, but that knowledge must take to me to face of respectful way our differences so that these do not mistreat or harm the relation totally. One requires that we are, objectives, clear, and precise, when we entered to have a discussion with our pair, on the problem or the difference that affects to us. We cannot be vague, we must identify totally what it causes annoyance to us in the relation, without wanting to solve several difficulties simultaneously. We must be conscious that a problem is necessary to face it and to solve it, without trying to look for reasons to justify its existence. Both must have total brings back to consciousness of which in a relation, sooner or later the difficulties appear, but as they are arising it is necessary to solve them with favorable solutions for both and not being looked for only a personal benefit.
The egoism is often, the greater obstacle to be able to obtain an understanding between two people. Any thing by trivial that seems we must put it in knowledge of ” otro”. They are not the important subjects, the education of the children, religion, the job class that we are going to develop, the site to buy or to construct the house, the place that we selected for our vacations, etc., which generally finishes being the cause of a separation. The pairs are few that end up separating by a cause of ” fondo”. I believe that no lawyer has had to take care of a pair because ” although we are wanted much, we have not been able to put to us in agreement in if we saved the money that we thought to be spent in the vacations or we go away to Europa.” The difficulties majors appear almost always in the smaller problems.
” The unique thing that it wants a weekend, is to watch its soccer after television, or to read its favorite book. If we did not leave it can spend all the weekend without taking a shower. Later it asks why my lack of enthusiasm to do amor”. Apparently they are things without importance, but they have a great capacity to produce irritation and annoyance, more than any really important problem. Then when already those smallness gets to tire to us too much, we transformed into differences majors. By your Inner peace, Bernardine Silver.
Great breaches exist to win that every moment that passes they are making greater as far as the form in which the social classes are organized and divided, a normal person of low class or average – conceives impossible to arrive at the power and to make changes unless she is by means of which they facilitate it and these others that they have to be able economic, political and social within the regime, it is than clear more that to get to be part of the elites and consequently of the political class one is due to count on much cleverness and charisma to gain to the people and to construct good social relations that they helped us to climb more and more high in the social and political pyramid, is necessary to be astute to know which are the relations that agrees to us and to be able, not to exceed the obstacles, but to avoid them. The corruption, the unique law respected in our country, takes clearly an important paper and is one of the most common ways chosen by many, since it is a way very easy to avoid the ties and from the beginning to reach of comfortable way but the raised objectives, this causes that the citizens we stop believing in the policy and everything what includes consequently and exists but apathy, people in the ballot boxes, to choose its leaders arrives thinking who will make less damages to their interests, or he does not even go to him through the mind at least to rise of his bed to vote or to annul his vote because its fatalistic thought makes think that always it will be bread with the same. The government is the one in charge to contribute to education, security and good quality of life to the citizens which in our Mexico pretty and wanted is than clear more is not possible, since the interests of this do not include that, since if it educates the society will be arming to them to be able to question the actions of this and this form to clear them of the power, by the same is that unhealthy places and precarious conditions live in, living to the day eating what they often can and not doing it, the government instead of to generate uses and to give good education so that this does not exist prefers to wash the hands and to leave them of side doing because they do not exist and this instead of to eradicate the problem it brings of the hand a species of chain of situations since people in extreme poverty are hungry and there is no another form to obtain money and foods more than committing crimes, being united to the narcotics traffickers who promise to better conditions of life, harvesting marijuana and poppy to them since this is more income-producing than to harvest maize or wheat they prefer and it in addition not to inherit the poverty to his children, this has created that nowadays exists extreme insecurity which creates a total crisis of the political system since a State without security cannot be considered like so, the citizens even feel uncertain to show itself by the door of its house, do not know that the day provides to them, if they will return to his homes or if when arrives they found that they did not leave anything them because they have robbed to them. .