Often the woman does not approve what the man thinks, because he does not value his point of view treats nor it warmly. When the man and the woman value themselves is difficult that their differences enter the plane of the discussion. When we have something bothers to us within the relation with our pair, we must be asked: Which is the problem that I have in my mind, or in my heart that I have still not been able to solve? We are different and imperfect, but that knowledge must take to me to face of respectful way our differences so that these do not mistreat or harm the relation totally. One requires that we are, objectives, clear, and precise, when we entered to have a discussion with our pair, on the problem or the difference that affects to us. We cannot be vague, we must identify totally what it causes annoyance to us in the relation, without wanting to solve several difficulties simultaneously. We must be conscious that a problem is necessary to face it and to solve it, without trying to look for reasons to justify its existence. Both must have total brings back to consciousness of which in a relation, sooner or later the difficulties appear, but as they are arising it is necessary to solve them with favorable solutions for both and not being looked for only a personal benefit.
The egoism is often, the greater obstacle to be able to obtain an understanding between two people. Any thing by trivial that seems we must put it in knowledge of ” otro”. They are not the important subjects, the education of the children, religion, the job class that we are going to develop, the site to buy or to construct the house, the place that we selected for our vacations, etc., which generally finishes being the cause of a separation. The pairs are few that end up separating by a cause of ” fondo”. I believe that no lawyer has had to take care of a pair because ” although we are wanted much, we have not been able to put to us in agreement in if we saved the money that we thought to be spent in the vacations or we go away to Europa.” The difficulties majors appear almost always in the smaller problems.
” The unique thing that it wants a weekend, is to watch its soccer after television, or to read its favorite book. If we did not leave it can spend all the weekend without taking a shower. Later it asks why my lack of enthusiasm to do amor”. Apparently they are things without importance, but they have a great capacity to produce irritation and annoyance, more than any really important problem. Then when already those smallness gets to tire to us too much, we transformed into differences majors. By your Inner peace, Bernardine Silver.
One already approaches Christmas and with them the usual purchases Christmas, sure not only we also bought we gave. Speaking candidly Intel told us the story. In these dates he is very usual that people feel a little but generous and but mainly human, that we called Christmas spirit so as every year many children are useful to ask their parents a mascot like gift. First, it is necessary to think that a mascot is not a toy reason why before the decision to regarlar to a boy a mascot we must think about if we are arranged to accept that responsibility and by its position if the boy in question this preparation and that type of mascot him iria well with respect to its personality and maturity at the time of treating the animal in question, since they always can give one to him virtual mascot or games of mascots until this it has age to take care of of one. Secondly, before buying, if the boy which wants it is a cat or a dog we must think about the possibility of adopting, since not only we will save a money if not that we will be making a favor to an animal that does not have home, apart from which when you are going to adopt they can to you to advise the animal that better goes with your style of life and needs. It remembers that an animal is an alive being who feels and suffers like your. On the other hand, much people prefer rearings so that they are but monkeys, so that they think that sera but easy so that they adapt, etc.
But in many cases is better a mascot of as of 1 year because usually they are customary to the children and it is not necessary to be teaching everything to them from the beginning and so they on approval do not pondran the patience of the boy in question and by all means of his parents, mainly if is the first time who have an animal in house. Another question, to consider is the hours that the mascot happened single in house and the space that is going to arrange then a periquito is not the same that a dog and is not the same a small dog that one great one. If you live in a very right floor or a house on field or villa, if you have a balcony or a great terrace And said this, I put some animal images here that normally hope to be adopted emergency, all of them are adorable. If you want to know here on anyone of them I leave to the site auque are many but, already ire publishing others. faada animal adoption.